I am just going to fling this one out here. Y'all can use it, or not.
A place where you can say any darn thing which comes into your mind. Somewhere which is totally un-moderated. All of your (consenting adult) friends will be there. Your friends who don't want to play that way will look, and back away.
(It's the best idea I have, guys. If you got mo bettah idea, speak up right quick. We've lost too many good people because they don't want to wade through extraneous "stuff".)